“Beauty is truth, truth beauty,” – that is all Ye know on earth, and all ye need to know. —- Ode On A Grecian Urn by John Keats
I have finished reading the book “The Choice” within 10 days, another perspective of TOC. In this book, a term – Inherent Simplicity is introduced. Reality though initially looks complicated is simple after thinking clearly. But the problem is the choice by human – whether they keep on claiming it is sophisticated or counter-claim it as simple. Of course, truth is beauty. The ugly comes from our choice.
When the truth and the difficulty is floating to the surface, we need to recognize it before we start to tackle it. Collaboration is imperative. Paradoxically, blaming others usually take effect first. Maybe it is hard to convince a power-having guy to understand that if the relationships are not harmonious, it is hard to get good collaboration and the chances of bringing an important opportunity to fruition will be severely reduced. Also, “If we allow ourselves to reach the stage where we blame the other party, our emotions will start to blind us. What is then the chance that we’ll devote the time and concentration needed to seriously look for the change that will foster harmony? Nil.” (P.76, The Choice)
When WWL used to blame, I intended to alert him; however, when I was also one of the blamed, I had better remain silent and did some he wanted and did something I thought necessary. The truth is I gave up alerting him as I believed he would not listen to me. It is most simplified principles to know but seldom is people aware of it. I hope I do.